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2013年08月08日 16:22:34 No.743 無題投稿者 : Manulyzn |
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It鈥檚 interesting to me now that I coach people, and coach them successfully. Once upon a time I felt that anything and everything would go wrong, from finances to relationships. And they all did. I went to a psychologist and drove myself mad trying to understand what was wrong with me. I was the queen of self-analysis. I鈥檓 not saying that鈥檚 bad, but self-analysis is only helpful when you look at what you鈥檝e been speaking and believing into your life, recognize the good and the bad, and cut out the bad. Things are going to happen that you can鈥檛 control, but if your life isn鈥檛 going where you want it, it鈥檚 more than likely due to your internal monologue. Keep telling yourself 鈥渋t won鈥檛 happen鈥? 鈥渢hey can鈥檛 love me that much鈥?and so on and so forth, and you鈥檒l live your own insecurities. Then the insecurities build on themselves because we then justify our negative thinking by 鈥淚 knew it would turn out like that!鈥?when we don鈥檛 get that promotion or somebody leaves us. |